I was also blessed with the little girl I had hoped for and I’m thankful that she came into my life when she did – in my forties when I have enough perspective to slow down and enjoy all the quiet moments that I might have missed with the boys. Every time she points out the birds chirping, a lightning bug, a school bus, or a firetruck, it reminds me how much just fades into the background for us and that we should actively try to live each moment to the fullest. Her endless sweetness and positivity also inspire me to support those qualities and nurture them in her, her brothers and myself.
It’s hard for me to express how honored and humbled I am to receive the “Working Father of the Year” award at RSM. Even on my own team internally here at the firm, there are so many deserving dads. This award has helped me to pause and reflect on my own perception of parenting. It’s easy and natural to be hard on ourselves and focus on our shortcomings as a parent – the times we didn’t get enough sleep or had a mental hangover from an issue weighing on us. However, as many of my mentors have taught me, it’s important to give ourselves grace and remember it’s not an easy world to live in these days for anyone – our kids included.